In this world everyone is not born with the same amount of wealth, conditions, and opportunities. However, one thing everyone has is choices. The real difference between the haves and have-nots is the amount of chances and do-overs to correct mistakes. In essence you have to live like each action you take either takes you closer or farther away from the goal, there is no in between. People make bad choices because they approve a bad decision by getting themselves to believe there is no ramification or consequence. Live a life where continuous improvement and progress are mandatory. If you are constantly executing actions that get you closer to your goal you can accomplish it. People that fail can’t honestly say majority of their actions worked toward their goal. In reality they likely did a few things to try to achieve something and then quit trying.